在facebook 看到的动手打老婆的短片（更新calven的说法)

wklong84 · 发表于 3-9-2012 09:35 PM

有感情的人看了都会 ‘火’ :@:@:@

CLEARING THE AIR: Calven Chik telling his side of the story to Malaysian
Digest reporters at his home in Ipoh yesterday. Pix: SM Amin.IPOH: “I
know it was wrong. I knew it the moment the red mist cleared. I’m
sorry.”
That is the admission by Calvin Chik (pic), the man who is at the centre
of the controversy involving a series of videos which depicts him
assaulting his wife in their branded goods boutique in Ipoh.
Almost overnight, the 26-year-old has become ‘public enemy number one’
on Malaysian social media networks, thanks to the availability of the
videos, which has garnered him nationwide scorn and even earned him
threats from strangers.
The videos, captured via the store’s CCTV cameras, were uploaded by his
wife, 19-year-old Amanda Fong, on her Facebook page. Fong, who is two
months pregnant, had also posted up pictures of the injuries she had
sustained following the incident.
At last count, the videos have been ‘shared’ almost 25,000 times by Facebook users.
Met at his family home in Ipoh yesterday, Chik said he had no excuse for his actions and expressed remorse.
“I know that there is no reason or justification for my actions and I
cannot defend myself over this. It was something that I should not have
done. I regret it,” he told Malaysian Digest.
Chik claimed he and his wife had numerous arguments before, some of
which had escalated into violence. He admitted that this wasn’t the
first time that he had become physical with her, and vice versa.
“I don’t expect anyone to understand it, and I doubt if anyone ever will,” he said.
Bad Romance
Pix: SM AminPix: SM AminViolence, he stressed, has not always been a
feature of their marriage. The couple first met in June last year and
tied the knot on Jan 17 this year.
He claimed that the marriage was good in the beginning, but was
eventually soured by the presence of his mother-in-law, whom he claimed
was a disruptive influence.He believed that Fong’s mother played a prominent role in influencing
her daughter’s behaviour and for driving a wedge between them.
“My wife had a troubled upbringing. Her parents separated when she was
young, and she was raised by her mother and grandmother. This was
related to me when we first started to know each other,” he claimed.
His mother-in-law, he claimed, was warm to his at first but he
eventually sensed that she disliked him. He claimed that when he went to
her to ask for her blessing to seek Fong’s hand in marriage, his
mother-in-law rejected him the first time around.
Chik related several incidences of when the mother-in-law’s behaviour
puzzled him, such as when the newlyweds wanted to go to Macau for their
honeymoon. He claimed the mother-in-law demanded that she be brought
along.“I thought it was a bizarre request, and my wife thought so too. This
was after all, our honeymoon. My mother-in-law only dropped her demand
when my wife bought her a ticket to London for a religious event,
something which the former had been pestering her for previously,” he
alleged.
Newfound Wealth, Mysterious Phone Calls
Chik claimed that when he first met Fong, the family was not well-off.
Both mother, daughter and grandmother lived in a modest two-room flat in
Ipoh.
“Amanda wasn’t working, nor studying, she told me her family couldn’t
afford it. But as the relationship progressed, I saw Amanda having quite
a bit of money. She then enrolled in a course at a local college,
claiming that the fees came from a sponsor from her mother’s company.”
Chik said he didn’t want to question where the money came from, but became increasingly intrigued as her spending increased.
“She later began accumulating expensive clothes, handbags and started
dining at expensive places. She no longer had to rely on me for money,”
he claimed.However, his curiosity reached its peak when she declared that she was
interested in buying a brand-new Volkswagen Beetle, which costs almost
RM200,000.
Chik, who ran a marketing company, claimed he knew there was no way she
could qualify for a loan, even if she used her mother’s name as the
mother did not make much.
She eventually told him that the source of her new-found wealth was an
“inheritance from her late grandfather”, who owned several orchid farms
in Malaysia. She told him that she received the money when she turned 18
from the caretaker of the family business.
He was also puzzled by ‘mysterious’ phone calls she received, and
claimed that she was secretive over the nature of the calls. She claimed
that the calls were from the caretaker.He claimed she also declined to let him accompany her when she wanted to go and meet the caretaker. He claimed she met the caretaker on a weekly
or fortnightly basis.
“Each time she returned, she would take her mother and I out for either a nice dinner or a shopping trip,” he claimed.
Chik claimed Fong eventually bought a brand new Honda Insight, which
costs almost RM100,000. She claimed that the caretaker had helped secure
the documents for the purchase.
“I tried to avoid thinking about it, but I reassured myself that this
was all above board, and there was nothing going on,” he claimed.
Infidelity Shock
He claimed that in May, while using his wife’s iPhone to use her web
browser, he stumbled upon a series of messages between Amanda and
another person. The messages, he claimed, were affectionate and personal
in nature.
“I was stunned. I didn’t know how to react to this, so I spoke with her grandmother,” he claimed.
He claimed the both of them then confronted Amanda, who
tearfully confessed that she had been having an affair. She claimed the
other man was an Ipoh-based Datuk, who was then revealed as the source
of her wealth.
Chik claimed that the Datuk, who was married, was someone she had known before she met him, but she was unable to break it off.</strong>
“She subsequently pledged to have nothing more to do with the man,” he claimed.
He alleged that after her admission, Amanda became hysterical and
threatened to kill herself, claiming that her life wasn’t worth it. He
claimed it took sometime before they managed to calm her down and the
situation got back to normal.
Depression and Suicide Threats
Chik disclosed that his wife was diagnosed as being clinically
depressed, based on their visit to the Hospital Bahagia Ulu Kinta. He
showed Malaysian Digest his wife’s medical diagnosis report, which
stared that she suffered from depression.
He also later discovered that he suffered mild depression as well, as is currently taking medication for it.
He claimed that she was prone to fits of rage, and admitted that it was
not something that he could usually help her with. He cited several
instances of difficulty in dealing with her rage issues.
“There was an incident where an argument broke out between us in her
home. She then took out a knife and chased me around the flat,
threatening to stab me. She then sat on the bed and gave me a choice,
which was to let her stab me, or she would stab herself.
“I was at a loss, and I broke down in tears. Her grandmother then came
home and diffused the situation. But this wasn’t before she had slashed
both her forearms.
“We knew that if we took her to a government hospital, she could be
charged with attempted suicide, so we took her to a private clinic
instead for treatment,” he claimed.
The CCTV Beating
The incident, he claimed, started from a petty argument within the shop and swiftly escalated into a massive fight.
“I’ve read the comments on Facebook and on blogs. I know what people
are saying. My wife has also accused me of attempting to harm the baby,
when it was the opposite.”UNCUT: Chik showing the full version of the
CCTV footage. Pix: SM AminUNCUT: Chik showing the full version of the
CCTV footage. Pix: SM AminHe alleged that his wife had a history of
driving off and “disappearing for hours” when they get into a fight.
“This always has me worried, given her pregnancy and her state of mind.
There have been times when we were worried sick as she couldn’t be
contacted for hours on end,” he claimed.
He claimed that he was trying to get her to remain in the store and not
storm off. He also claimed that he was trying to defend himself from his
wife’s attacks.
Chik, however, admitted that he should not have reacted violently.
“I have no excuse for that. It was something that shouldn’t have happened, it just went out of control,” he said.
He said he was fully prepared to face the consequences of his actions.
Police are now investigating the case under Section 323 of the Penal
Code for voluntarily causing hurt.
If charged and found guilty, he faces a maximum one year jail sentence or a maximum fine of RM2,000, or both.
Chik said he was aware of the possibility and was prepared to face them.
“I know what I did was wrong. I’m not running away from it, I’m not hiding. I will accept whatever comes my way.”
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yfsonata · 发表于 3-9-2012 10:44 PM

等中鞭。。。

1238 · 发表于 3-9-2012 10:53 PM

如果是那位女的把老公的钱汇给人，还给老公带绿帽呢？

wklong84 · 发表于 3-9-2012 11:07 PM

1238 发表于 3-9-2012 10:53 PM
如果是那位女的把老公的钱汇给人，还给老公带绿帽呢？

无论如何，动手就是错。戴绿帽，养小白脸都是可以解决的。动手打人就错的:@:@

1238 · 发表于 3-9-2012 11:14 PM

wklong84 发表于 3-9-2012 11:07 PM
无论如何，动手就是错。戴绿帽，养小白脸都是可以解决的。动手打人就错的

如果你老婆给你带绿帽，再把钱转完给人，准备要跑时，你会知道后会怎样？

P/S: 我也不赞成这位影片中男人的做法，但是不能只看单方面

chinsinyong · 发表于 3-9-2012 11:22 PM

清官难断家务事

Amber911 · 发表于 4-9-2012 01:18 AM

唉啊！夫妻打架而已没什么大不了，两公婆什么都会有，今天我朋友两公婆为了芝麻録豆小事闹离婚。爽时就结啰，不爽时就离啰，好像吃生菜

jokey · 发表于 4-9-2012 08:19 AM

如果是打老公的话，又会怎样的讲法？？

mingkok76 · 发表于 4-9-2012 09:21 AM

家家有本难念的经！但是先动手打人就不对！

malaysia_boleh · 发表于 4-9-2012 09:37 AM

不知到人家当中发生什么事情，谁对谁错只有当事人知道

a9294 · 发表于 4-9-2012 09:54 AM

打女人不是男人~
什麼也可以解決..
大不廖離婚...

FB 寫這個女懷孕的

【佳礼新闻】短片上传网络讨公道　丈夫殴打孕妻

（槟城3日讯）一名遭受家暴的19岁华裔孕妇，不甘被丈夫当人肉沙包拳打脚踢，把事发时电眼拍下的短片及伤势照片上载面书，为自己讨公道！

这名来自怡保，自称为“Amanda Fong”的少妇，怀有两个月身孕，她于8月23日开始，在其面子书上载遭丈夫暴力殴打后的24张身体伤势照片，接着30日再上载短片。她的照片及影片已广泛流传，引起网民公愤，纷指责施暴的丈夫罔顾生命，更大力谴责施暴者禽兽不如！

分别长达11分钟49秒及11分钟32秒的短片，是其时尚店铺电眼所拍摄的，短片显示，Amanda Fong 全程遭丈夫在其经营的时尚店铺里拳打脚踢，甚至大力拉扯受害者的头发及头部，间中更有如日本摔跤般的情景，将少妇摔在地上，全身上下似乎无一幸免。详细内容http://cnews.cari.com.my/news.php?id=272502 本帖最后由 a9294 于 4-9-2012 09:55 AM 编辑

想愛 · 发表于 4-9-2012 10:09 AM

太暴力了...我接受不到!!

andywaiyee · 发表于 4-9-2012 12:20 PM

hai.清官难断家务事,不知到人家当中发生什么事情.

玄影 · 发表于 4-9-2012 12:26 PM

女的费酱多力做么？

只要一脚他下体就ko鸟

edwing · 发表于 4-9-2012 12:28 PM

什么事情都可以解决，不能凡事用暴力来解决。
用暴力解决问题的人都是最吃亏的人，要好好的商量和谈。

www2 · 发表于 4-9-2012 02:28 PM

很好奇，为什么video没有声音？听不到谈话内容的

wklong84 · 发表于 5-9-2012 12:33 AM

不管是谁的错，动手打女人是不对的。但是，从cctv看到的，不只是巴掌，拉头发，掐颈项，这些都是很暴利了。换成那女的是自己的女儿，或本身是当事人，有何感想？不是我故意针对那个calven(男主角）的。事实摆在眼前。

wklong84 · 发表于 5-9-2012 12:34 AM

www2 发表于 4-9-2012 02:28 PM
很好奇，为什么video没有声音？听不到谈话内容的

因为是cctv录下的。

chongma26 · 发表于 5-9-2012 01:10 AM

清官难断家务事........男的这样做肯定错了。。。。但为了什么他会这样激动呢？？真的他们自己才知道！！希望无辜者能得直!!

Stg_44 · 发表于 5-9-2012 03:02 AM

有两边的故事再说

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